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  • Dating tips · 3 min read Spotlight boosts: be seen first, the fair way A boost puts you among the first profiles people see for an hour, a day or a weekend — without ever breaking anyone’s preferences. By The SeekMyHeart team
  • Dating tips · 3 min read Heart Picks and daily recommendations: people chosen for you A few people each morning, and hand-picked Heart Picks every Sunday. Here is how they are chosen and how to make them even better. By The SeekMyHeart team
  • Dating tips · 3 min read Likes, matches and roses: how connections happen When two people like each other, it is a match. Here is how likes work, who sees them, and when a rose is the right move. By The SeekMyHeart team
  • Dating tips · 3 min read Getting the most out of Discover and its filters Discover shows a fresh mix of Heartseekers every visit. Here is who you see, which filters to use and how to browse with purpose. By The SeekMyHeart team
  • Profile tips · 3 min read Your best photos, prompts, video and vouches: a profile that stands out Photos, prompts, a short video, words from friends and an expert review: everything SeekMyHeart gives you to show the real you. By The SeekMyHeart team
  • Safety · 3 min read Date safety check-in: let a friend know, then relax Share your date plan with someone you trust. If you do not check in afterwards, they are alerted with the details — so you can relax and enjoy the date. By The SeekMyHeart team
  • Safety · 3 min read How to spot a romance scam (and what to do) Scammers follow familiar scripts. Learn the warning signs, the stories they tell and the simple rules that keep your heart and your money safe. By The SeekMyHeart team
  • Safety · 3 min read Why we wait before sharing phone numbers Phone numbers, social media and links unlock only after you have chatted for a while and both agree. Here is why — and why it protects you. By The SeekMyHeart team
  • Safety · 3 min read Why the blue tick matters: getting verified on SeekMyHeart Selfie, phone and ID checks show other Heartseekers that you are real. Here is how to get verified, and why it is worth the two minutes. By The SeekMyHeart team
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