Your Search. Your Heart. Your Person.

Photos, a short bio, prompts, interests and a video introduction.

• Say clearly what you are looking for: marriage, a long-term relationship or getting to know someone first.
• Add your faith, family plans, lifestyle and dealbreakers — you choose who can see each answer.
• Your exact birthday, location and contact details are never shown; members see your age and state.

Short questions about values, family, money and communication.

• For each question you also say which answers you would accept, and how much it matters to you.
• Mark a question as a dealbreaker and it counts far more than a preference.
• The more you answer, the better your compatibility estimates become.

Selfie, phone and ID checks show who is real.

• Our team compares a quick selfie with your profile photos; verified Heartseekers get a blue tick.
• Phone and ID verification add extra badges to your profile.
• Verified members can use boosts and stand out in Discover.

Browse Heartseekers of the opposite gender in your age range, in a fresh mix every visit.

• Every card shows an estimated compatibility and the main reasons you might click.
• Filter by state and age for free; Premium adds faith, marital status, verified-only, video and "only people who match my preferences".
• Liking someone who is not very compatible, or who has a dealbreaker you clash with, asks "are you sure?" first.

An honest estimate from what you both told us — never a promise.

• Five factors: mutual preferences, relationship intentions, compatibility questions, shared interests and lifestyle.
• Both directions count: someone scores well only if you fit what they want too.
• You also see what is "worth talking about" — differences to discuss early.

A few people each morning who fit what you are looking for.

• Chosen from people whose preferences you meet, and who meet yours.
• Premium members get more each day.

Every Sunday, a few hand-picked Heartseekers with the highest compatibility.

• Each pick comes with the reasons we chose them.
• Free members get a few each week; Premium plans get more.

See who viewed your profile.

• Free members see their most recent visitors; paid plans see everyone, with the full history.
• Prefer to browse quietly? Switch off “Show me when I visit profiles” in Privacy settings.

Save people you’re interested in to your own lists and come back later.

• Make lists like “Want to meet” and add private notes.
• Completely private: nobody is told when you save them.

Like someone; when they like you back, it's a match.

• Matches are mutual: you can only message people who also chose you.
• Premium members see everyone who liked them; free members see how many.

Like a particular photo or answer and add a short note about it.

• Tap the heart on a photo, or “Like and comment” under an answer, and say what caught your eye.
• If you match, your comment becomes the first message — so the chat starts with something real.

Send a rose with a short note to stand out before you match.

• Your rose puts you at the top of their likes — on every plan, so they always see who sent it.
• A rose also sends a like. One rose per person.

Be one of the first profiles people see for an hour, a day or a weekend.

• Boosted profiles show a "Spotlight" tag and appear first on Discover, the home page and Explore — at most one in every few cards.
• A boost only reaches people who could already see you; it never breaks anyone's preferences.
• From 80 credits for 1 hour; Premium plans include free boosts every month. Verified members only.

A fresh question every day to answer, show on your profile or share with a match.

• Answers are private unless you choose to show them on your profile.
• Share an answer with a match to start a deeper conversation.

Video call your matches from the chat — no phone numbers needed.

• Members on our top plans can start a call; anyone can answer.
• Calls are private and never recorded; you can end and report at any time.

Chat with your matches: replies, reactions, typing and conversation starters.

• Conversation starters are suggested from what you have in common.
• Edit or unsend your messages; mute or archive any chat.
• Premium adds read receipts ("Seen").
• A gentle “your turn” reminder if a match has been waiting a day for your reply — never at night, never for muted chats.

Don’t know what to say? Send a quick game.

• “This or That”: two fun choices like “Jollof or fried rice?” — they pick one.
• “Two truths and a lie”: write three things about you; they guess which isn’t true.

Suggest a place and a time; they accept, decline or suggest another time.

• Pick one of our Date spots or anywhere public, plus a day and a time.
• Once it’s a date, you both get a reminder a few hours before, and can tell a friend with a date safety check-in.
• Sending a date idea comes with paid plans; anyone can answer one.

Phone numbers, social media and links unlock after 10 days of chatting, on at least 6 different days, once you both agree.

• This stops scammers rushing people off the platform, where we can't protect you.
• Photos in chat unlock at the same time.
• The same rule applies to profiles, groups and the Book Club.

Send coffee, chocolates, a teddy, a bouquet or a gold heart with a note.

• Gifts are a gesture paid with credits — they never turn into money and are never sent between members as cash.

Install SeekMyHeart on your phone or computer — our heart on your home screen, full-screen, with notifications.

• Android and computers: one tap on “Install”. iPhone: Share → Add to Home Screen in Safari.
• No app store and nothing to pay; it's always up to date.

Push and email so you never miss a match or a message.

• Push notifications on your phone or computer, even when SeekMyHeart is closed.
• Emails only when it matters: a new match, a message waiting an hour, a daily or weekly likes summary and a Sunday round-up.
• No optional emails between 10pm and 7am, and subject lines never name another member. Turn anything off in Settings.

Share your date plan with a trusted friend.

• If you don't check in after the date, your friend is alerted with the details you shared.

Great first-date ideas in Lagos, Abuja and beyond.

• Restaurants, lounges, art spaces and outdoor spots, with member offers at partner venues.

Communities for faith, careers, fitness, travel, parents and more.

• Groups are mixed: talk to anyone, while dating suggestions stay opposite-gender.
• Free members join two groups; Premium members join more, start polls and propose new groups.

Read one book together each month.

• One part a week, spoiler-free discussions, a live book chat and a vote on the next book.
• Love the same books as someone? You'll see "You both loved…" on their profile.

Live evenings of five-minute video dates — included with paid plans.

• Say yes or no after each date — if you both say yes, it's a match.

Your love language, your partner type and marriage readiness.

• Free for anyone, no sign-up needed — share your result with friends and show it on your profile.

Share your link — you both get free credits.

• Rewards arrive once your friend has confirmed their email, finished their profile and had their photo approved.

Short articles, practical guides and videos on healthy love.

• Communication, emotional maturity, red flags, boundaries and preparing for commitment.

Understand your attachment and conflict style before you commit.

• Built with Hisparadise Therapy — take it alone or as a couple.

Private sessions with Hisparadise Therapy counsellors, alone or as a couple.

• Dating with confidence, healing after a breakup, premarital counselling and more.
• Your counselling stays confidential and separate from your dating profile.

Agree to be exclusive and pause your profiles together.

• A guide to introductions with family, with tips couples found helpful.

Together, engaged or married? We celebrate with a gift.

• Both partners confirm, our team checks, and you each receive credits plus a personal surprise.

Friends who know you write a few honest words for your profile.

• They use a private link — no account needed — and you choose what appears.

Our team gives practical tips on your photos and bio.

• 150 credits, or free every three months with Gold and Platinum.

Do one useful thing a day and earn free credits — plus a bonus every week and a free boost every month.

• Answer a compatibility question, reply to a match, like or pass on someone, or post in a group — the first one each day counts.
• Every 7th day adds a bonus, and every 30th day a free Spotlight boost.
• Premium members get one streak saver a week, so a busy day doesn't break their streak.

Credits for boosts, roses, gifts and profile reviews.

• Buy credit packs by card or bank transfer, or earn them with daily streaks and by inviting friends.
• Credits can't be cashed out or sent to other members — no money ever moves between members.

Report and block anywhere; real people review every report.

• Adults only. Photos are checked by our team, and scam patterns are watched for.
• Incognito browsing, hidden answers and full control of who sees what.
• We will never ask you for money, and you should never send money to someone you met online.