Community
More than swiping
Join groups around what you love, read a book together every month, and meet people through real conversation. Discussions are for members only — join free to take part.
Groups
30 communities and growing. Free members can join two; Premium members can join more and start polls.
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20 members Faith and Values For members whose faith shapes how they love.
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20 members Lagos After Work Hangouts, new spots and good company in Lagos.
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21 members Abuja Connect Lounges, hikes, events and conversation in the FCT.
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20 members Singles' Lounge Say hello, share your story and meet people who get it.
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20 members Ambitious and Building Founders, professionals and people with plans.
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20 members Foodies of Naija Jollof debates, suya spots and cooking for two.
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20 members Fitness and Wellness Gym partners, running clubs and healthy minds.
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20 members · members approved Ready for Marriage For members seriously looking to settle down.
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20 members Travel and Adventure Weekend trips, getaways and finding someone to explore with.
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20 members Music, Movies and Culture Afrobeats, Nollywood, series and concerts.
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20 members · members approved Single Parents Circle A warm, safe space for single mums and dads.
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20 members Crush Confessions Crush stories, awkward moments and funny dating tales.
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20 members Truth or Dare: Dating Edition Light-hearted truths and safe, fun dares — always optional.
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20 members Plan My Perfect Date Date ideas, weekly polls and inspiration for your next date.
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20 members Hot Takes on Love Friendly debates on the big dating questions.
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20 members Weekend Vibes Weekend plans, hangout spots, music and good food.
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20 members Photo Challenge Club Weekly photo prompts — moments, places and memories.
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20 members Game Night Crew Trivia, word games, riddles and online game nights.
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20 members Adventure Buddies Hikes, road trips, new places and travel stories.
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20 members Books, Movies and Deep Talks Films, books, fictional couples and stories that changed us.
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20 members Music and Mood Songs for every mood, love songs and playlists.
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20 members Foodies and Food Dates Favourite meals, recipes, restaurants and dream food dates.
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20 members Relationship Real Talk Communication, trust, boundaries and commitment.
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20 members Fitness and Healthy Living Walking, dancing, workouts and healthy routines.
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20 members Ambitious Singles Careers, business, education and big plans.
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20 members · members approved Marriage-Minded Singles For people ready for commitment and, one day, marriage.
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20 members New in Town Just moved? Find spots, events and friendly faces.
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20 members Green Flags Only Kindness, honesty and the small things that matter.
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20 members Talent and Creativity Corner Poetry, singing, art, comedy, photography and writing.
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20 members Letters to My Future Partner Write to the person you hope to meet.
The Book Club
With Hisparadise Therapy
SeekMyHeart is a service of Hisparadise Therapy. Their professional coaching and counselling are booked on their own website.
- Take the compatibility testA professional compatibility test from Hisparadise Therapy.
- Individual sessionsOne-to-one counselling: dating, healing, confidence.
- Couples sessionsCounselling for couples, including premarital sessions.
- How it worksWhat to expect from a session.
- Register with Hisparadise TherapyCreate your account to book.
- About Hisparadise TherapyWho they are and how they work.
- Contact Hisparadise TherapyQuestions before you start? Get in touch.
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Also for Heartseekers
Video speed dating
Live evenings of five-minute video dates — included with paid plans.
Love quizzes
Your love language, your partner type and marriage readiness.
Invite friends
Share your link — you both get free credits.
Relationship Learning Hub
Short articles, practical guides and videos on healthy love.
Readiness check
Understand your attachment and conflict style before you commit.
Coaching and counselling
Private sessions with Hisparadise Therapy counsellors, alone or as a couple.
Exclusive and family
Agree to be exclusive and pause your profiles together.
Found love? Tell us
Together, engaged or married? We celebrate with a gift.