Finding the right person is only half of the journey. Building a healthy relationship takes self-knowledge, honest conversations and, sometimes, a little expert help. SeekMyHeart works with Hisparadise Therapy to support Heartseekers at every stage.
The readiness check
The readiness check helps you understand two things that shape every relationship:
- Your attachment style — how you handle closeness, trust and distance.
- Your conflict style — whether you face problems straight away, need time first, or tend to avoid them.
Built with Hisparadise Therapy, it can be taken alone or as a couple. Taking it together is a gentle way to talk about things that usually only come up after an argument.
Coaching and counselling
Members can book private sessions with Hisparadise Therapy counsellors, alone or as a couple. Common topics include:
- Dating with confidence after a long break.
- Healing after a breakup or divorce.
- Communication and conflict.
- Premarital counselling — money, family expectations, faith, children and roles.
Your counselling stays confidential and completely separate from your dating profile.
Signs you might be ready for marriage
- You can talk honestly about money, family and the future — even when it's uncomfortable.
- You've agreed on the big questions: faith, children, where to live.
- You handle disagreements without contempt, and repair afterwards.
- You know your own patterns, and you're willing to grow.
Try the free marriage readiness quiz as a first step.
Conversations worth having before marriage
- How will we handle money — joint, separate or both?
- How involved will our families be in our decisions?
- What role will faith play in our home?
- Do we want children, and how will we raise them?
- How do we each want to resolve conflict?
Many of these appear in SeekMyHeart's compatibility questions too — revisit them together.
When you've found your person
Read from match to exclusive to learn how to pause your profiles together, introduce families and share your good news with us.
Learn more about Hisparadise Therapy on our about page.
Common questions
Is counselling only for couples?
No. You can book sessions alone or as a couple — for confidence, healing after a breakup, or preparing for marriage.
Will my matches know I had counselling?
No. Counselling is confidential and completely separate from your dating profile.
Who are the counsellors?
Sessions are with Hisparadise Therapy counsellors. Find out more on our about page.
When is the best time for premarital counselling?
Before the wedding plans take over — ideally once you’re exclusive and talking seriously about the future.