Every Heartseeker's goal is the same: to stop searching because you've found your person. SeekMyHeart has features for that moment too.

Talking about being exclusive

There's no perfect timing, but some signs it may be time to talk:

  • You've met in person several times and want to keep seeing each other.
  • You've discussed the big questions and agree on the direction.
  • You're no longer interested in getting to know anyone else.

Be direct and kind: "I really enjoy what we have, and I'd like us to be exclusive. How do you feel?"

Becoming exclusive on SeekMyHeart

When you both agree, you can mark your relationship as exclusive in your account. Your profiles are paused from discovery together, so neither of you appears to new people — a simple, clear commitment. If things change, either of you can end it.

Family introductions

In Nigeria, meeting the family is a big step — and often a big part of the decision. Members get a guide to introductions with family, with tips couples found helpful. A few to start with:

  • Prepare each other. Share the family dynamics: who's who, what to expect, sensitive topics.
  • Respect traditions — greetings, dress and gifts.
  • Agree on your story of how you met. "We met on SeekMyHeart" is a proud answer.
  • Debrief afterwards, kindly and honestly.

Preparing for marriage

Consider premarital counselling with Hisparadise Therapy and take the readiness check together. Read readiness, coaching and counselling.

Found love? Tell us

Together, engaged or married? We'd love to celebrate with you. Both partners confirm, our team checks, and you each receive credits plus a personal surprise. With your permission, your story can inspire other Heartseekers on our success stories page — we only share stories when both people agree.

Friends can vouch for you, too

Before you get to this point, friends who know you can write a few honest words for your profile — see a profile that stands out.

Still searching? Start with how SeekMyHeart works, or join free today.

Common questions

What happens to my matches when I become exclusive?

Your profiles are paused from discovery together, so neither of you appears to new people.

What if it doesn’t work out?

Either of you can end exclusive mode, and your profile can be shown again when you’re ready.

Do we have to share our story publicly?

No. Sharing your good news with our team is private. Stories only appear on our success stories page if you both agree.

How do we tell SeekMyHeart we found love?

Use “Found love? Tell us” in your account. Both partners confirm, and our team takes it from there.